I don't know what's wrong with me at the moment but I keep having sneaky little naughty dreams.
And not about my husband.
*Shock horror. Sharp intake of breath. She actually admits dreaming about people OTHER than her husband?!*
I dreamt I kissed his best friend from University, in the lift of my old workplace.
Whilst wearing a bikini and a sarong.
I don't even own a sarong. I wouldn't ever wear a bikini to work, and I have never even fancied the bloke, so it's all wrong.
In every way.
But the thing that went on and on in this dream was my desperation to be kissed by him. I mean, that's how tame it was, there was no full blown sex or anything, just my longing for him to kiss me.
And then I woke up.
I told my husband.
He raised his eyebrows.
Two nights later and I dreamt about a boy from my old school.
Again, I was desperate to kiss him.
This is a guy who I never even slept with despite dating on and off from the age of 15 until University.
In my dream he was the 20 something boy, not the 30+ corduroy wearing man he is now. I didn't tell my husband about this dream.
Not sure he'd really appreciate me constantly dreaming about kissing other men.
So, tell me. What does it all mean?
Is it normal?
Will I be dreaming of kissing other men tonight I wonder?
I hope not.
It's all quite exhausting.
9 comments:
this made me laugh! I have had similar. i think it's normal... i hope it's normal... and there isn't some really deep hidden meaning?!
It IS normal. Please don't feel guilty about it, just glad that your libido is obviously very healthy!
Maybe husband needs to take you away for a little mini break....?
Perfectly normal.
I have had dreams about all manner of men, some of them not even fanciable - I even dreamed about Tony Blair in an erotic way once! Deeply worrying.
Funny but I dreamt the other night that Husband was snogging someone. A Barbara Windsor look-alike too!
Funny how your unconcious wanders!
The kissing the other blokes in your dreams is fairly normal I'd say, and not even worth mentioning to husband (I don't!). On another note though I am very glad to hear that you wouldn't wear a bikini or a sarong at work, that is quite reassuring! :)
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Hello Mummy Fat Club. Glad a made you laugh. I shall look up on those dream analysis websites what it means when you have dream about snogging people who aren't your hubby and get back to you. I think it may mean I read too much and watch too much romantic slush!
Mud - Libido...? Healthy? Hmmm, my husband may argue that one out with you! ;o)
NVG - Tony Blair and the word erotic should not be used in the same sentence. Obama however...
Jenny - So, how did you react when you saw your hubby smooching Babs Windsor lookalike? Was it in her younger days or now?
Perfectly Happy Mum - Ooh, Ok, I will pop over now. I would only wear a bikini to work if I was very skinny, very brown and worked in the glamour modelling industry. And I am none of the above.
Oh, I hate when that happens. I usually dream about cheating on my husband (full blown affair...) and wake up, all drenched in sweat, reduced to tears, hitting myself on the head and asking why I had to do it, why I had to destroy everything. And then I open my eyes and there he is, snoring peacefully at my side...
I can't believe you told your husband! I'm not sure how I would react if it turned out he wasn't bothered by the dream though.
Metropolitan Mum - Well hello there MM. I have had those sweat inducing dreams too. These ones however were rather pleasant. Have not occured since though. Currently I am dreaming about Swine flu. Preferred dreaming about kissing boys to be honest.
Expat Mum - My husbands indfference to most matters is astounding. Sometime I have to check his pulse to make sure he's still alive ;o)
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