Monday, 15 December 2008

So this is Christmas...

Busy, busy.Not quite sure I like being busy. But here is why I have been busy...
Tree up and decorated. Left the four year old to decorate it (she did her level, I did the above bits that she couldn't reach) expecting to have to re-do it as soon as she went to bed, but she did a better job than I. She is quite clearly going to be some superstar creative type.
Nativity play costume got, play watched and videoed. She was an angel. She was perfect, they all were. So enthusiastic and desperate to please. It made me weep. She did three performances. When she got home she weeped. Out of tiredness. And then she whinged. Boy, did she whinge. How is she going to cope next term doing full days every day? I will cope by stashing gin under the kitchen sink and having little nips now and then so I don't lose my patience with her when she is a whinging wreck. That is my job. To be the whinging wreck. Although I feel I don't really have an excuse now my youngest is 2. OK, you can get away with saying, 'You don't know how tough it is!' when they are 12 weeks old. Not so much when they are two and four.
Presents to friends living abroad posted. For the first time EVER I made it before the deadline date. It was missing a thank you card which was found yesterday under the driving seat in the car. Sorry about that. I don't mean to be rude. I do say thank you for lovely gifts. Please buy me and my daughter a birthday present again next year.
Presents for husband bought. To be returned most probably the day after Boxing day. It bugs him that I don't get EXACTLY what he asks for. This year he wants some white converse all star trainers. I have bought him white LEATHER converse all star trainers. It could make all the difference. Other years mistakes...a book about football. He wanted one with big lovely photos, I bought one that was a series of essays about the beautiful game. His face dropped. Another year he wanted Manchester City shorts for football training. I bought kids size medium instead of adult. They didn't go up past his knees. I never did get around to sending them back...
Class Christmas cards written, and signed by eldest daughter personally. For three days I sat next to her whilst she wrote these cards with love. It's a novelty you see, she has just learnt to write. But 'To Harry, Love XXX' takes her approximately 20 minutes. There are 30 in her class. You do the maths...
Buying £200 of clothes in the sales. Today. Oops. I don't know how it happened. Boden had a sale on, so I got a jumper, a pair of jeans, which thankfully need to go back, a cute pair of trousers and ballet pumps for big girl, two tops and gold ballet pumps for baby girl, a new pair of half price Clarks boots (which I'd like myself thank you very much) for big girl, a hat, some gloves, a bag...oh shite. What have I done? Where am I going to hide them all?!
House been valued and been to view a house I like. Husband doesn't even want to move. We can't really afford it. But where there is a will there is a way...I have spent all weekend trying to persuade him. But nothing. He is not going for it. Actually, I didn't try everything(Ooh MH - Cue boobs out in a dim light whilst still wearing underwired bra, you think it could work with houses as well as babies?). Have had to call estate agent and cancel second valuation tomorrow morning. They think I am a bored housewife going to look at others peoples houses as I have nothing better to do. I think they might be right.

What have you all been doing? Don't think I haven't noticed how infrequently you're all posting of late...

14 comments:

nappy valley girl said...

I think you are allowed to whinge ESPECIALLY when you have kids that are two and four.

I have been busy writing Christmas cards and wrapping presents, neither of which activity I can do when the boys are around, as they are so disruptive...playing with scissors, grabbing pens etc. And it's been so cold that I can't exhaust them into a stupor by walking them around Clapham Common all day!

Mud in the City said...

I've been making Nigella's peanut butter and chocolate squares (and some how not eating them all!) and trying to track down my charity Christmas cards which have failed to be delivered, again.

And drinking wine, naturally.

Jennysmith said...

Oh i'm so jealous. The Boden sale didn't have anything i liked in my size! Was so fed-up. Especially as i cleaned up in the last sale. Still, went mad in John Lewis' sale yesterday.

Are you still going to stay in Surrey? We're gettin our house valued in January and hopefully will stay in Twickenham - just have something bigger!

Given up on xmas cards from the kids, they're always left half done somewhere around the house. But they're bigger so i've left it up to them.

No bloody Nintendos anywhere so thats the main present up the Swanee!

Try and enjoy the christmas period - and i will too.

Tara said...

That's funny because this is the first year that I'm not working at Christmas time and I have NOTHING done.
Sure I've bought the cards and the presents and the wrapping and various sundry items that you don't need to HAVE to purchase, but they're all just sitting there. Mocking me.

Tara said...

Mud, I am coming round to your house to test your Nigella fare . . .

A Confused Take That Fan said...

Nappy - Of course I will still whinge whatever age the children are. Although I am trying to be more like my mother in law who is positive about everything...I need to do my Christmas cards. Now.
Mud - They sound delish. I was thinking of buying Nigella's Christmas myself. Friend made amazing mince pies, honey and chilli sausages and rocky road all from her book and they were delish. Have you eaten one yet?
Jenny - Glad you managed to treat yourself in the John Lewis sale. Yes, staying pretty local, but not too far now biggest girl is in school and enjoying it. Good luck with your house move in the new year if you do it. Think we will need to win the Euromillions to afford anything...

Mud in the City said...

They are also in her 'How to be a Domestic Goddess' book - there's a chapter on Christmas. They are tasty, but don't look nearly as neat as they did in the pictures! (presentation isn't my strong point).

I do like her recipes though!

(word verification is 'zings' - what fun!)

A Confused Take That Fan said...

Tara - Reassuring that you are being exactly the same. I just saw some presents in my bedroom that are staring, just staring at me, waiting to be wrapped.
Mud - thing is, I may buy the book for a tenner, look at it and think...mmm that looks nice. Put it with my other cook books and buy a packet of mince pies from M&S for a pound. Rubbish eh. Who cares about presentation if it tastes nice!

Mud in the City said...

What you need is the BEST mincemeat recipe (also used by Nigella) - and it is suet free, so just has to be healthy!

et voila! http://www.aspoonfulofsugar.net/wp/2007/12/hettie-potters-suet-free-mincemeat/

Here it is!

Millennium Housewife said...

I think it might be knickers off time girl if you want that new house. But silver lining...you could make it a double whammy (no not orgasms, another joke men have played on women) but baby....
MH

Millennium Housewife said...

PS what have I been doing? We threw our annual xmas bash a few weeks ago and were left with copious amounts of wine and champagne. Your turn to do the math. MH

Lesley (Notesfrommydays) said...

er what have i been doing hhmmmm not sure actually!!! but does seem to be a bit quieter in blog land!! although after reading your list i am inspired to do something/anything tomorrow :-) proabably the one where you spent £200 on clothes , i think i could do that ............

auntiegwen said...

I have been lesson planning, marking, work setting as well as teaching, being observed by the world and it's granny to see if I actually know what I am teaching (not always, recently I have covered lessons in GCSE English, A level history, GCSE Religion, Philospiphy and Ethics, and GCSE Physics !)
stopping my children killing each other and...

single handedly making Christmas happen in my house.

I got a very smug text from himself, saying " Got your Christmas present" in a very, that's me done now way and I have no feckin clue what to buy him except more gig tickets and we have tickets to see Glasvegas for a 3rd time !! There's no one left we like we haven't seen, feckity feckity feck, save me some of that gin !

ps word verification... pities !!! that says it all

bubbleandsqueak.fr said...

Happy Yuletide to you and yours and best bloggy wishes for 2009. Have a great day, sounds like you got it all sorted, specially the Boden stuff
Lune x